Stop Selling and Start Building Relationships
Thursday, November 25th, 2004
This is a continuation of my very first post to this blog that was basically a bit of a rant with no clear direction. I found this amazing article on 7 ways to to stop “selling” and start building relationships by Ari Galper that describes solutions to address the need to focus not so much on how to alleviate old-school preconceptions of sales stigma, but more so how to avoid leaving customers with the impression they were forced into a buy decision against their will that creates this stigma in the first place.
I have always subscribed to the philosophy that if the service or product does not fit a client, don't sell it to them. You only damage the relationship and eventually lose the customer. One of my biggest qualifying questions when I was in discussions with a prospect for domain registrations was …
”Is price your biggest concern? Or does reliability and service level have any weight in your decision?”
If the answer was yes to the former and no to the latter I would explain my opinion on why I believe the opposite, then offer to conclude my discussion and provide my contact information for when / if they change their mind. I plant the seed, but I know I will never be successfull until they feel direct “pain” from their beliefs.
Price is not how Tucows competes. Dedication to wholesale, a 5 star platform, and one of the most experienced sales and support staff in our industry is how we compete. We sell solutions, not just domains and ancillary services. We only make money if our resellers are successfull, not if they fail since they purchase from us on a transactional level at the time of purchse from their customers. That is the trust we provide in the solutions we suggest to our clients.
Here is a great teaser for you to go and take a look at the article itself which is an amazing read:
New Thinking = New Results
Maybe it's time to take a different approach. Maybe we need to seriously analyze our sales thinking so we can identify why we're not making more sales. Take a look at the table below and thinkabout your current selling mindset. How would your selling behaviors change if you changed your sales thinking?
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Traditional Sales Mindset |
Unlock The Game™ Mindset |
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Always deliver a strong sales pitch. |
Stop the sales pitch — and start a conversation. |
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Your central objective is always to close the sale. |
Your central goal is always to discover whether you and your potential client are a good fit. |
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When you lose a sale, it's usually at the end of the sales process. |
When you lose a sale, it's usually right at the beginning of the sales process. |
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Rejection is a normal part of selling. |
Sales pressure is the only cause of rejection. Rejection should never happen. |
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Keep chasing every potential client until you get a yes or a no. |
Never chase a potential client – |
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When a prospect offers objections, challenge and/or counter them. |
When a potential client offers |
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If a potential client challenges the value of your product or service, you must defend yourself and explain the value. |
Never defend yourself or what you have to offer — it only creates more sales pressure. |
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